“It’s just like sports,” Dhuey said. “We do
ability grouping early on in childhood. We have advanced reading groups
and advanced math groups. So, early on, if we look at young kids, in
kindergarten and first grade, the teachers are confusing maturity with
ability. And they put the older kids in the advanced stream, where they
learn better skills; and the next year, because they are in the higher
groups, they do even better; and the next year, the same thing happens,
and they do even better again
Because we so profoundly personalize success, we
miss opportunities to lift others onto the top rung. We make rules that
frustrate achievement. We prematurely write off people as failures. We
are too much in awe of those who succeed and far too dismissive of those
who fail.
Their research suggests that once a musician has
enough ability to get into a top music school, the thing that
distinguishes one performer from another is how hard he or she works.
That’s it. And what’s more, the people at the very top don’t work just
harder or even much harder than everyone else. They work much, much
harder.
These are stories, instead, about people who
were given a special opportunity to work really hard and seized it, and
who happened to come of age at a time when that extraordinary effort was
rewarded by the rest of society. Their success was not just of their
own making. It was a product of the world in which they grew up.
The sense of possibility so necessary for
success comes not just from inside us or from our parents. It comes from
our time: from the particular opportunities that our particular place
in history presents us with.
Those three things—autonomy, complexity, and a
connection between effort and reward—are, most people agree, the three
qualities that work has to have if it is to be satisfying. It is not how
much money we make that ultimately makes us happy between nine and
five. It’s whether our work fulfills us.
Hard work is a prison sentence only if it does
not have meaning. Once it does, it becomes the kind of thing that makes
you grab your wife around the waist and dance a jig.
Success is a function of persistence and
doggedness and the willingness to work hard for twenty-two minutes to
make sense of something that most people would give up on after thirty
seconds.
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